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Billy Bob Harris, Dallas Dealmaker

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June 30, 2026

Billy Bob Harris: The Original Texas Connector

to Dallas Deal-Maker — A Life of Speed, Serendipity, and Second Chances From Panhandle Dust 

Billy Bob Harris contemplating. Courtesy Channel 4 and Billy Bob Harris

In the world of Texas networking, few names carry the legendary weight of Billy Bob Harris. Born in the tiny Panhandle town of Grover, he parlayed small-town grit, athletic talent, and an uncanny ability to bring people together into a remarkable Dallas life — stockbroker, radio personality, club owner, friend to Cowboys legends and music icons, and, above all, a master facilitator who reduces the “six degrees of separation” to two. Paul Heckmann of Memories Incorporated sat down with him for a wide-ranging conversation about roots, reinvention, and the relationships that define a life well-lived.

Paul Heckmann: You were born in Amarillo and raised in Grover — a town of about 800 people. What was life like there?

Billy Bob Harris: We had church, school, and fabulous people. That’s about it. No stoplight — just a stop sign. The next big town was Spearman, the county seat, and they had a stop sign too. My dad was an only child, raised in the Dust Bowl days. He ran a Shamrock filling station by day and farmed at night. Those were tough times — he borrowed money for seed and went seven years without harvesting a crop. Then the big snows came in ’41 and ’42, and in two years he paid off $40,000. That was real money back then.

We moved out to the country when I was in third or fourth grade. Closest neighbors were a mile and a half away. I was the first kid off the school bus and the last one on. Got a whipping at school? Got another one when I got home. My mother’s name was Willie, and the bus driver would holler out the window, “Willie, got another one today!”

PH: You mentioned a “drug problem” from a young age.

BBH: Yeah — my parents drugged me to Sunday school, church, MYF, prayer meetings… every time the doors opened. I’m very thankful for that now.

PH: You got the name Billy Bob honestly.

BBH: My people on both sides — Harrises named Will, Brookses named Robert. So Billy Bob it was. In a graduating class of 22, we all started together in first grade. Then a gasoline plant brought in more families and just about doubled the class. FFA was big. We played football, basketball, ran track, or rodeoed. No baseball or volleyball — not enough bodies.

I was fast. As a 115-pound freshman, Coach Chapman put me on the mile relay. He’d take me home after practice: “You’ll go hard or go home.” I made the team and ran against some great athletes from Stinnett, including Freddie Thompson in the 440. That wasn’t always pleasant.

PH: You had scholarship offers from SMU and North Texas.

BBH: A bunch of state champions from bigger schools were heading to North Texas, including Richard Menchaca, who had the best half-mile time in the nation as a freshman. I wanted to run with those guys. I never went to SMU — visited, but North Texas felt right. We had an incredible freshman track team. Richard is in the North Texas Hall of Fame and deserved it.

PH: After college you went back to Grover and climbed on a tractor.

BBH: My family were farmers. I didn’t want to farm, but I didn’t want to tell my daddy that either. I lasted four or five months. An older friend, Rod Barkley, my hero, said, “You don’t own a farm — go to the big city and be a stockbroker.” I thought he meant Amarillo. He said, “No, Dallas.”

I talked to my dad out in the field. Wind blowing, dust flying. He asked who I knew in Dallas. I mentioned a church friend, Don Norman, at First National Bank. Daddy said if that’s what I wanted, I should do it — and if it didn’t work, I could always come home. I got on that two-lane blacktop and never looked back.

Billy Bob in his younger days. Courtesy Billy Bob Harris

PH: You landed at A.G. Edwards, went to New York for training, and passed the test.

BBH: First job of my life. I was in the lower 10% in production after a couple years. Then I met Ron Chapman at a party. KVIL was a little fledgling station in Highland Park. He asked me to do the stock market report — no pay, but it would be good for me. I started the next morning. No speech training, no nothing. First day he called and said (colorfully) I needed to loosen up. That afternoon I tried a more casual style: “That puppy went south…” Did that for 18 years.

PH: You roomed with Donnie Anderson, the great Stinnett athlete who became an All-American at Texas Tech and played in the first two Super Bowls.

BBH: Donnie was three years behind me and the best of a lot of great athletes from that area. We lived together on Hershey, then moved to a bigger place on Rollins. I even introduced him to the woman he married. Don Meredith gave me a great plug on Monday Night Football once after Donnie had a big run: “Back in Dallas, he’s known as Billy Bob Harris’ roommate.” My phone lit up for days.

PH: That’s when you started meeting more of the Cowboys — through Craig Morton.

BBH: Craig was the first overall pick, big, handsome, from California. I met him when we both showed up for the same date. The girl opened the door, saw both of us, and Craig said, “Let’s all go together.” He had a Mark III Lincoln with an 8-track — California Dreamin’ was playing. Eyes wide open for this kid from Grover. Craig and I became great friends. I introduced him to his wife. Through him I met Pete Gent and a lot of the guys.

PH: You and Craig opened a club on Bachman Lake — Wellington’s.

BBH: A disco. Had great early success when the Pro Bowl was in Dallas — all the players came because of Craig. I was still brokering by day and working the club at night. Unfortunately, there was an incident where four guys abducted two Texas Tech students from our parking lot. That was the beginning of the end. We got out after a couple years.

PH: Around that time you had a turning point.

BBH: I’d been going to Lovers Lane Methodist since I got to Dallas. Respected Pastor Don Benton. Never preached at me, but the Holy Spirit was tapping my shoulder. I needed to slow down. I still attend — now with Stan Copeland. Beautiful church with the biggest stained-glass window in America. They do tremendous outreach, especially for the homeless.

PH: You’ve stayed close to music legends too — like Kenny Rogers.

BBH: Met him at Soul City on Greenville when he was with the First Edition. Club closed at midnight, so I invited the band back to my place. That started a friendship that lasted decades. I traveled the world with him — Africa, Switzerland where Lady Antebellum opened for him. Kenny once called me a “facilitator… a business concierge” who knows the value of relationships and how to connect what people need with what others can deliver. I’ll take that.

PH: You also introduced Kim Harmon to Rudy Gatlin.

BBH: Yes — they married, had kids, and are no longer together, but we’re all still friends. 

PH: I keep asking Kim to marry me. She keeps turning me down. 

BBH: Maybe we can broker something.

PH: Today you’re still doing what you do best — business development and connecting people.

BBH: For the last 25 years I’ve been with a small private equity group — the only one who can’t write the big check. I eat what I kill. I’m not a consultant telling people how to run companies. If they need something, I go find the solution and put the pieces together. My board — Bruce Ledbetter, John Pickett, Chris Bancroft — has been incredible. Gene Street once said I reduce six degrees of separation to two. I just try to help people get where they want to go.

PH: Sorry but we are running out of time here. Any final thoughts looking back?

BBH: I’ve been blessed with wonderful people in my life — from Grover to Dallas, the track, the Cowboys, the music world, and the church. I love what I do. If I can help you or connect you with someone, just say the word.

We lost Billy Bob on March 9th, 2025

 

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Gruene Hall

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June 29, 2026

Gruene Hall, Texas Oldest Dance Hall

 

Gruene Hall: Texas’ Oldest Dance Hall

Built in 1878, Gruene Hall is Texas’ oldest continually operating dance hall and one of the state’s most iconic musical landmarks. Tucked in the Gruene Historic District of New Braunfels, the hall has remained remarkably unchanged in both layout and character since its 19th-century construction.

19th-Century Foundations

The surrounding area was settled in the mid-19th century by German farming immigrants. Henry (Heinrich) D. Gruene established the community’s economic backbone by acquiring large tracts of cotton-growing land. In 1878, he commissioned builder Christian Herry to construct the hall as a saloon and social gathering place for local cotton tenant farmers.

From the beginning, Gruene Hall served as the heart of the community—hosting school graduations, traveling salesmen, weekend dances, and countless other gatherings that brought neighbors together.

Decline and Survival

The town’s fortunes collapsed in the 1920s when a devastating boll weevil infestation destroyed the cotton crops, followed by the hardships of the Great Depression. After World War II, new highway routes bypassed the area, causing families to scatter and leaving much of Gruene a virtual ghost town.

While the local bank, mercantile store, and cotton gin eventually closed, Gruene Hall never shut its doors—standing as a stubborn survivor through decades of decline.

1970s Revival and Enduring Music Legacy

In 1974, architecture student Chip Kaufman discovered the forgotten town and spearheaded a successful effort to list the entire Gruene Historic District on the National Register of Historic Places in 1975. That same year, entrepreneur Pat Molak purchased the hall and performed only minimal repairs, deliberately preserving its authentic, timeworn charm.

Under Molak’s ownership and new booking vision, Gruene Hall transformed into a premier live-music destination. It became a legendary career launchpad for artists such as George Strait, Lyle Lovett, and Hal Ketchum, while also hosting timeless icons including Willie Nelson, Garth Brooks, Merle Haggard, and Loretta Lynn.

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From the Streets to the Spotlight: The Unbreakable Spirit of Louis Fite

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May 5, 2026

In the sweltering heat of a Texas Friday night, a compact, 5’8″, 190-pound running back from Waco High took a handoff and turned the impossible into the inevitable. Defenders bounced off him like pinballs. He spun, cut, and exploded for yard after yard, breaking records and hearts along the way. To the crowd, Louis Fite was a phenom. To those who knew his story, he was a miracle.

Born in Compton, California, Fite’s early life was anything but charmed. “It was rough,” he recalls. “Fights and worse happening all the time.” By age nine, he was homeless on those same streets, surviving on school breakfast and lunch, scavenging from convenience stores, and trailing homeless adults for safety. At 12, his aunt sent him to Waco, Texas, where his family had inherited a house in East Waco after his grandmother’s passing. But stability proved fleeting.

By high school, Fite was homeless again—from ninth through twelfth grade. He slept in parks, including Little Lions Park and North Waco Park, or wherever a friend’s family would take him in for the night. Homework was a luxury he couldn’t afford. “I never had a stable place to study,” he says. “I had to go get something to eat, find a place to sleep. People said, ‘Louis Fite was dumb.’ I never had a chance.”

Fites wowed Fans in 1990, courtesy John Werner, Waco Tribune Herald

Yet on the football field, he was unstoppable. At Lake Air Junior High and later Waco High under legendary coach Johnny Tusa, Fite’s talent shone through the chaos. As a senior, he shattered the school’s single-game rushing record against Temple, rushing for nearly 300 yards in the first half alone. “I didn’t know anything about records,” he laughs. “Coach Tusa let it slip, and suddenly it wasn’t just a game anymore. I did it for Waco. For the teammates who didn’t make it.”

Dave Campbell, the iconic Texas football chronicler, called him the best high school running back he’d ever seen. Fite earned Parade All-American honors and Super Centex recognition. Coaches still light up describing him: “Unbelievable talent… quickest feet you’ve ever seen… could make a 2- or 3-yard run into something special,” said Tusa. “He could cut on a dime and give you nine cents’ change.”

Off the field, tragedy struck hard. While walking with his cousin James Silmon—one of the fastest sprinters around—a car hit James. Fite watched in horror as his cousin’s life ended that night. The memory remains vivid. “I can see it right now,” he says quietly. That loss, along with family struggles, only deepened his resolve. “I raised myself on right from wrong by watching other people’s mistakes.”

College recruiters eventually came calling, but Fite was navigating it blind. “I didn’t even know you could play high school football and go to college,” he admits. He signed with Baylor but academic issues led him to Navarro Junior College, where he rushed for an astonishing 2,788 yards. Stints at Fort Scott, Kansas, and eventually Texas A&M-Kingsville followed, thanks to persistent coaching from Don Pittman and Ron Harms.

At Kingsville, Fite became electric. In a nationally highlighted NCAA Division II game against Portland State, he scored by launching into a full forward flip over a defender and landing cleanly in the end zone. The play made ESPN and even David Letterman’s show. The next week, he tried it again and drew a penalty—much to everyone’s amusement. Teammates like David Lopez remember him as “the most electrifying player I had ever seen,” yet also the humblest: “Most studs were jerks… not Louis.”

Fite helped lead the Javelinas to Lone Star Conference titles and national championship contention. After college, he signed briefly with the Chicago Bears before thriving in the CFL with the Baltimore Stallions (Grey Cup champions) and Montreal Alouettes. He earned solid paychecks—up to $109,000 in his final season—and saved diligently. But after three years, a deeper calling emerged.

Louis Grey Cup Ring

While visiting high school practices, Fite overheard coaches dismissing lesser-talented kids. It hit him hard. “If I know it, you know it,” he decided. He walked away from playing to train the overlooked. Today, working alongside his wife—a record-setting volleyball coach from San Saba—he runs football camps and personal training out of the Dallas-Fort Worth area. He has helped 22 kids earn Division I scholarships, many of whom others had given up on. “These were the kids they said couldn’t even play on my team,” he says proudly.

Fite still lives with the scars of his past—three knee surgeries, the loss of loved ones including a long-term partner in a car accident—but his outlook remains fiercely positive. “I live one day at a time,” he says. “You’re not guaranteed tomorrow.” He continues to house and clothe homeless kids, often giving away the shoes off his own feet, remembering the boy who once had nothing.

From Compton streets to Waco High stardom, from Kingsville flips to Grey Cup rings, Louis Fite’s journey is proof that talent and character can overcome almost anything. As Coach Harms told him years ago: “Do you know who you are? You’re Louis Fite.”

And that name still means something powerful—on the field and far beyond it.

Louis Fite can be reached through his Facebook page, Building Field Leaders, or at 254-224-2911. His story continues to inspire the next generation of Texas football players.

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Ed Asner

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May 5, 2026

“Lou Grant” This is Ed Asner courtesy CBS

Ed Asner, he has left the building back in 2021. I did this interview with him back about 20-25 years ago. Really funny guy and very nice!

What is your all time favorite movie?

Ed – “Best Years of Our Lives”

If you had only one book, and you were on a deserted island, what would that book be?

Ed – “The Brothers Karamazov”

One place you haven’t been that you still want to go to.

Ed – Africa

Your five most interesting people at dinner, real or fictional, past or present – who would they be?

Ed – Abraham Lincoln, Moses, Napoleon Bonaparte, Adolf Hitler and George Bernard Shaw

Apple pie – plain, or alamode?

Ed – Alamode

Casual or business wear?

Ed – Casual

Procrastination or ‘just do it!’?

Ed – Just Do it!

And now, the interview:

Paul – Mr. Asner, it’s rather intriguing that a kid from Kansas City should turn out to be a 7 time Emmy and 5 Golden Globe winner. Can you tell me a bit about your childhood and your family?

From Ed Asner’s childhood in Kansas City. Pretty sure I could have picked him out of a baby lineup. Photo courtesy Ed Asner

Ed – Sure, Paul. I was born in 1929 in KC, Kansas. We had a pretty big family – 5 kids. I was the youngest of the brood. My father was a junkman, so weren’t exactly the silver spoon bunch. I was raised as an Orthodox Jew. I was also what some people call a “Type A” in high school, you know – hard-driving perfectionists who hurry all the time, talk fast, interrupt other people, etc.

Ed Asner Wyandotte High School 1947, courtesy Ed Asner

Paul – When did you discover that you had a talent for acting?

Ed – After graduating from high school, I enrolled at the University of Chicago. I was a member of a campus group for dramatics. One of the people that directed me was a much younger version of Mike Nichols (Director of “The Graduate”, “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Wolfe, “Postcards From the Edge” and others.)

Ed as part of the Second City comedy lineup, photo courtesy Second City Comedy

Paul – And what did your family think about your acting career?

Ed – My family was by no means impressed.

Paul – What were the most important things you picked up when you were attending the University of Chicago, and do you still have friends you stay in touch with from there?’

Ed – Oh yes, I still have plenty of friends from college that I stay in touch with. As far as what I learned, it would be something along the lines of how greatdt it is to be an intellect and an aesthete.

Paul – You spent a couple of years in the US Army. Can you tell me a bit about that period and how it affected the rest of your life?

Ed – I guess I was like most GI’s, there were a lot of highs and lows. It did get me to France, a place I’d always wanted to go. As for how it affected my life, I came out of the Army knowing exactly what I wanted to do with the rest of my life – and that’s to act!

Paul – Your career appears to have really started to take off after you left the Army. Where, when and how did your big break come about?

Ed – Actually I was still in the Army when I got my first break. While still stationed in France I received a letter from Paul Sills asking me to join his theatre company. We worked at the Playwright’s Theatre Club in Chicago with a group that was a predecessor of the famous “Second City” comedy circuit. My life pretty much began falling in place after that. I took off after a couple of years to head to New York City and worked some off Broadway gigs for a while, working with Jack Lemmon and others. I didn’t stay there too long – we packed up and headed out to California in 1961.

Paul – Who would you say had the largest influence on your early years?

Ed – Definitely my sophomore English teacher, my journalism teacher and later on, other actors from University of Chicago and the different theatres.

Paul – Without a doubt, your most well known character is ‘Lou Grant’. With a twelve year run starting with the “Mary Tyler Moore” show, and subsequently evolving into the “Lou Grant” show, the character of Lou seemed to take on a life of it’s own. How much of Ed Asner is in Lou Grant, and how much of that character is in Ed Asner?

Ed as “Lou Grant” courtesy Chicago Tribune, Bob Fila. Asner shaking hands with Chicago Tribune city editor Bernie Judge while researching his role.

Ed – Lou’s comedic side was based on two of my brothers. They were always cutting up. The more somber side of Lou was delving into my own, dark soul.

Paul – From what appeared on the screen, both shows appeared to be a fabulously fun bunch of talent to be around. Is that true, and was there the same camaraderie off camera?

Ed – I really loved those people. We had a great time working together.

Paul – Will there ever be a Lou Grant revival on the small or big screen?

Ed – Absolutely not. Not with me anyhow.lou

Paul – With the exception of Lou Grant, what has been your favorite role and why?

Ed – I loved doing Axel Jordache in “Rich Man, Poor Man”.

Paul – That was an incredible show. If I remember correctly it was the first real mini-series. You won an Emmy for your role, and it was also Nick Nolte’s breakout role.

Ed – Yes, it was the perfect role for me and Nick was magnificent!

Paul – You’ve done a plethora of films and TV shows over the years. I’d assume that you’re able to select the roles you want. With that in mind, what do you look for in a script? Do you prefer comedy to a more serious role?

Ed – Well, what I look for now are roles that are interesting to me or comedic. Strangely enough, as I get older, I feel that I can get bigger roles in comedy. At least that’s the direction I’m looking

Paul – Do you have any favorite writers that seem to be able to capture your talent?

Ed – I really enjoy David Lloyd. He’s the fellow behind the comedy of shows like “Cheers”, “Frazier” and “Taxi.”

Paul – One of your roles that hit close to home for me was the one in an “Arliss” episode as a broadcaster who was in the early stages of Alzheimer’s. It must feel incredible to touch people with a role like this. Patty (Mr. Asner’ s assistant) told me that you received quite a response. Can you comment on this, and how it touched you?

Ed – Well the “Arliss” role itself wasn’t that difficult as far as the Alzheimer’s and dialogue. The toughest part was learning to portray an ace sportscaster well. And it’s always good to know that you’ve touched someone’s life.

Paul – As you’re quite the accomplished voice actor, how hard do you feel voice acting is?

Ed – I truly love voice work. It’s not hard if you’re a reaonably good talent and somewhat intelligent. You really need a sense of flow and a sense of music to guide you. Some of the projects I’ve worked on are “Captain Planet”, “Batman”, “Gargoyles” and others – it’s something I really enjoy.

Paul – Who is the favorite voice character you’ve done?

Ed – Who else? God! I really love playing that the character of God, and/or someone in conversations with God.

Paul – Who are some of your favorite actors to work with?

Ed – Well, I could go on and on, but I really enjoyed some of the people from my earlier days – Mary Tyler Moore, Vic Morrow, Dan Travanti, Jack Lemmon and Ted Knight.

Paul – Who are some of your favorite producers, directors and/or crew to work with?

Ed – Allan Burns is near the top of my lists, he was the Executive Producer of “Mary Tyler Moore”, “Rhoda” and “Lou Grant” Another talent that I really enjoyed was Roger Young. He directed the pilot and some of the episodes of Lou Grant. He also did a couple more pilots that were picked up like “Magnum, PI” and “Hardcastle and McCormick” and a ton of other projects.

Paul – A few years ago, you were the President of SAG (Screen Actors Guild) How much has it changed since then? Where do you see the organization going?

Ed – SAG is enormous now compared to when I was the President. I know there are some difficult times due to assaults on unionism and runaway production. But of course nothing can top being a union actor.

Paul – When you answered the questions for the “Two Minute Drill”, of the five most interesting people that you would like to have at a dinner table, one was Adolf Hitler. Why would a man of your faith choose someone like Hitler?

Ed – I would really love to find out exactly what made him tick. You know he had this reputation as a dynamic and magnetic individual. Those kind of people fascinate me. And when you think of the other guests -Lincoln, Napoleon, Moses, and Shaw, well, I don’t think he’ll dominate the conversation.

Paul – What ‘glass ceilings’ do you observe to still be hanging around ‘the biz’?

Ed – Well, I suppose that women at the top are safer than those at the bottom.

Paul – If you could start your career over, and know what you know now, what would you do differently?

Ed – Save my money!

Paul – What’s the best advice you could give someone wanting to start an acting career?

Ed – Look elsewhere or get rich first!

Paul – Mr. Asner, I thank you for your time and wish you and yours the best in life.

Ed – This was fun, call me anytime!

Ed passed away in 2021

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Jack Mitchell and The Stycks

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November 30, 2025
"We auditioned Stevie Ray Vaughn to join Stycks as a favor to Jimmy Vaughn. I could tell he was a natural but we really needed somebody that could play the cover tunes. He was really good but we needed guys that could fit in our style, he was still a little wild. Then a couple of year later we are playing The Cellar and this band called Blackbird comes on and all of a sudden here comes Stevie. Wow. What a change. The guy was an absolute phenom. That was the week before this happened. We were up at Louann's during the day trying to work in the new guitar player that we had just hired and had left all our equipment up there. This was April 1st of 1971. I get a call from a friend of mine telling me that 'Louanns burned down last night'. I tell him 'that's not funny' thinking its a April Fools joke. Turns out it was true."
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